31 January 2009
Is it just me? Am I the only one?
Quick question...
Am I the only person who either after a relationship ends looks at the person with whom they have been replaced, or even during a relationship looks at those they have replaced and thinks..
"What the hell is wrong with me?!?" or "Am I that ugly/irresponsible/pathetic/adjective of choice?"
I have noticed I do this often, and have for quite some time. I know we all have different tastes and qualities we look for, but damn! I look at some of the people that exes have dated and think, if that is their typical type, I must be REALLY sad and ugly. Occasionally though it goes from a woe is me to an ego moment of "Hell, I was the best thing they ever had!"
But on either side of it. Is it just me?
Am I the only person who either after a relationship ends looks at the person with whom they have been replaced, or even during a relationship looks at those they have replaced and thinks..
"What the hell is wrong with me?!?" or "Am I that ugly/irresponsible/pathetic/adjective of choice?"
I have noticed I do this often, and have for quite some time. I know we all have different tastes and qualities we look for, but damn! I look at some of the people that exes have dated and think, if that is their typical type, I must be REALLY sad and ugly. Occasionally though it goes from a woe is me to an ego moment of "Hell, I was the best thing they ever had!"
But on either side of it. Is it just me?
Labels: observation, random
